I am living with a man, who was divorced 6 years ago. After his divorce (she left him for her lover) he was still sleeping with his ex. She stayed in his face, using her youngest daughter (age 15) (he adopted her three bastard kids, by two different men.) telling him he can't see her (the child) unless they both come  to his house. Then I found pictures they would take while there, standing with just there arms around each others waists....Nothing dirty just your family type pictures. Don't you think this was a little strange? Wanting to do photo shoots after you are divorced. Now 6 yrs later she still continues to text him, and send him pictures of a grand child they share. The mother of the grand child is 20 yrs old. Don't you think she's old enough to send the pictures herself. The kids are older and call him by name/not dad, they have sperm dad/paying support dad/acting dad. How many dads does one set of kids need. My bf say's that she is a control freak...This is causing problems in our relationship, I have been divorced for 1 1/2 yrs, and have no contact with my ex (we also have 3 kids over 21) I have asked the bf how long is this gonna go on, she should have been out of your life years ago I say to him. Am I wrong in feeling like I do, I figure that she ran around on him, and divorced him, married her bf, and still wants to play with him. My bf doesn't like to be mean to people, but was able to be talked  into sleeping with her after they divorced, so I don't trust the bf (even though he say's he's not interested in her)   and I don't trust her either...I told my bf the shit stops now or he can get out of my house. I will find a new playmate..Am I wrong in trying to get the ex out of his life......

Wondering
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Female N.Y.