okayyy so there's this guy who i really really really like and he likes me we've been hooking up for the past 6 months and i would sleep over his house each time. I think he's perfect i've honestly never felt this way before. There's a couple problems with this he's 7 years older and he's like a huge player. A couple days before the last time we hooked up he wrote a message on facebook saying that he's the best thing for me i just dont know it yet, and then he said if i can do better then why even waste eachothers time? i said i dont want anyone else, then he says why don't you be my girl then and i said yeah i want too. And then he said that like if were gonna be together i need to see more of an effort on your part (because i never text him) because i def enjoy the time we spend together and could see us spending a lot more. And then i went over 2 days after all that and we didnt talk about it at all and now he hasn't texted me and i haven't texted him either like he asked, i'm just so confused was he serious or not and how do i make it official? Should i text him or just try and move on ? i'm so confused