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It still hurts...
Last Post 30 Aug 2010 01:50 AM by thatasiankiddd.. 2 Replies.
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20 Aug 2010 02:03 PM
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I dated this guy when I was 12 until I was 14. He talked bad about me to my friends and to other people in my school, made up rumors about me, and even cheated on me (that's why I broke up with him) for this stupid slut who told him that she'd have sex with him whenever he wanted just because she hates on me and my crew." Even though I'm over him it still hurts a lot mentally and I really don't know why. I guess I thought that I loved him.

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JudgeNeilUser is Offline Posts:394



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20 Aug 2010 02:14 PM
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Judge Neil's Advice

To be honest you are not over him as much as you tell yourself that you are.  It will take time but you will get over him.  Best thing you can do is to create a new life for yourself as much as possible.  Constant reminders of him and the past will make the healing go a lot slower. 

I am sure you did and maybe still love him. 

The good news is that you will find that you will fall in love again...
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thatasiankiddd.



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30 Aug 2010 01:50 AM
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I know what you mean. These type of things really not physically. But, mentally. It's like a broken heart. You can't see it broken. But, you sure can feel it. This type of rumor was spreaded about me too. I've been in this thing with this guy for over 6 months. I finally told him I didn't want a boyfriend so we stopped talking. He spread rumors that I'm a slut. He'd say oh she left me to go to some hoe. Like seriously us girls don't get vredit for all the shit we have to go through. He's jsut intimidation level just makes me feel so incecure when I see him with his friends. He makes it seem like I'm the only one that has ever done anything bad. He says that he hates me for all the pain i've put him throguh. But, he never really thoguht of what he did to me. My bestfriend and I saw that he was abusive and overly-protective and agressive. He woudn't let me talk to any other guys. And, constantly checked my phone like he had no trust in me. And, my opinion is to dump him on the curve. Because, If he's the type to start rumors like that about you he's not worth being a boyfriend to a great girl. So my adivice is that life WILL go in n' he's just another man with no plans and ambitions that's only there for a pussssy hit mission.


thatasiankidd. tennessee. 16


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