What are the positive effects of sex in a relationship?
I am just wondering if I should have sex with my boyfriend of around two years. Everyone seems to be different in their opinions of premarital sex and that makes me confused about it. If I didn't have everyone else in my ear I'd just follow my heart and what I know is safe. Please respond!

Alma (16F) from Orange, MA

Wow, Haven't we all been in this situation? Well, the best thing to do is to wait. You never know if it's just a man with no ambition n' is just there for a pussy hit mission, yenno? And, by your age above it says 16. If you really think about if you have your whole life ahead of you. Wouldn't you want it to be with someone that's going to a be a "forever" type of relationship. Many girls my age have had sex with more than one guy n' they always say "shit, I wish that i've never done that with him". Because they got dumped right after that. Don't get me wrong there not sluts either they've been in there relationships from 1-3years n' the guys treated them with so much respect. They thought that was "the one". But, they thought wrong.

thatasiankidd/tennessee/16.