FORUM ADVICE Forums Search Members Unanswered Active Topics Reply To Topic Topic: I am just wondering if I should have sex with my boyfriend Username:  Security Code: Enter the code shown above in the box below Subject: RE: I am just wondering if I should have sex with my boyfriend Message: Submit Cancel Preview Topic Review thatasiankidd. 30 Aug 2010 12:25 AM Wow, Haven't we all been in this situation? Well, the best thing to do is to wait. You never know if it's just a man with no ambition n' is just there for a pussy hit mission, yenno? And, by your age above it says 16. If you really think about if you have your whole life ahead of you. Wouldn't you want it to be with someone that's going to a be a "forever" type of relationship. Many girls my age have had sex with more than one guy n' they always say "shit, I wish that i've never done that with him". Because they got dumped right after that. Don't get me wrong there not sluts either they've been in there relationships from 1-3years n' the guys treated them with so much respect. They thought that was "the one". But, they thought wrong. thatasiankidd/tennessee/16. JudgeNeil Posts:394 20 Aug 2010 07:07 PM Judge Neil's advice At your age I don't know if I can see any positive effect of sex in a relationship. Even if you practice "safe" sex, the risks far outweigh the perceived rewards. If you are the "statistic" and get pregnant, your life will be forever changed. Even if you decided to get an abortion, the emotional trauma would be there with you for the rest of your life! If you keep the baby how ill you care for it? Before you let your boyfriend play in the garden, ask him this: "If something goes wrong, and I get pregnant, even though we are being SAFE, will you dedicate the rest of your LIFE to taking care of ME and the BABY?". Most guys will lie at this point. My opinion is that you should not "Play House", unless you can afford the house! If you do decide to have sex with him. Drag his horny @$$ to a clinic and have BOTH of you checked for any Sexually Transmitted Diseases. Better to know huh? Get live advice from me on Blog Talk Radio *** Check my Blog Talk Radio page for show times!!! www.JudgeNeil.com / www.FreeAdviceCenter.com Alma 20 Aug 2010 07:04 PM What are the positive effects of sex in a relationship? I am just wondering if I should have sex with my boyfriend of around two years. Everyone seems to be different in their opinions of premarital sex and that makes me confused about it. If I didn't have everyone else in my ear I'd just follow my heart and what I know is safe. Please respond! Alma (16F) from Orange, MA Active Forums 4.3