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RE: Broke up with me says he wants to do somethong different - JudgeNeil
Judge Neil's AdviceI am not sure I totally agree with trying to save this relationship.  Like a doctor in the emergency room doing triage I just don't see enough in this patient to say it can survive.  However, doctors have been wrong and people that have been left to die have lived so let's say tha
Broke up with me says he wants to do somethong different - Loveneverdies2010
Jimmy and I have been together for five years. For the most part we have a wonderful times together. I am ten years older than him, but we loved each other. He is a wonderful guy, however in  his growing up, his dad cheated on his mother and there was never any real love between a couple shown to hi
RE: Relationship is at that big point of Over - My Two Cents
What to do next?  From your Subject line, I take it that you feel that the relationship is over.  From what you write, it appears you are the one that is keeping is going.  Your choices at this point are to either get out, stay in or do nothing.  All are difficult.  Getting out, this can be done eit
RE: how can i stop me and my husband from fieghting about small thangs - JudgeNeil
Judge Neil's AdviceYou should really post more information about your situation.  Lacking more detail I will give you a general answer.If a man seems to be fighting about small things that he did not do before then something is probably bothering him like the lion with a thorn in his paw.  Now if he
RE: marriage reconciliation after 6 year separation - JudgeNeil
Judge Neil's AdviceI do believe that it is possible to reconnect with someone that you were with.  It sounds like the both of you are on the same page of wanting to try again and also communicating so I think you have a good chance to make it work.Keep in mind this is a NEW relationship.  Who you we
marriage reconciliation after 6 year separation - N1
My husband and I separated about 5.5 years ago. We avoided each other and had other relationships. Two weeks ago, we found each other on facebook and started talking. We admitted that we still love each other. We have spent some time together and it's felt right. We both have come to realize that al
RE: Boyfriend/ex wife - JudgeNeil
Judge Neil's AdviceI completely agree with you the ex should be out of his life already.  Exes are like cockroaches, just when you think you have gotten ridden of them they show up in the middle of the night to eat your food!!!With younger children you are kind of stuck with an ex a lot of times.  A

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RE: should i stay with my girl? - JudgeNeil
Judge Neil's AdviceFrom your post it does not sound like you really care about her more than deciding what to eat on Tuesday.  Yeah you care, but not all that much.  Hmmm, I really like the burgers at Mcdonalds, but recently I have been craving a White Castle, even though it is far away and I can't
should i stay with my girl? - GreatOne
me and my girlfriend have been together for about 9 months now. ever since we've been together i can never save money. its not her fault because her mom kicked her out and stuff, but i just dont really feel a real connection anymore. we have little arguements about almost everything and im pretty su
RE: I like a guy, but he dosent like me back. - thatasiankiddd.
My personal advice to you is to just start off friends. Friends have to be the starting point because a lot of my relationships began with out being friends and they didn't work at all. If you don't know why you like him. Maybe it's looks. Looks can be DECIVING! it's pretty hard to find someone now
I have a boyfriend, though I miss my last thing i had, but i'm talking to another guy. - thatasiankidd.
So here's how it is.    At the moment I have a boyfriend. He's the sweetest thing in the world. He cares for me. And, makes me feel special. But, the only issue is that we can hardly keep a conversation going. But, I hang out with him almost everyday afterschool.    Then, we have this guy who I had
RE: I am just wondering if I should have sex with my boyfriend - thatasiankidd.
Wow, Haven't we all been in this situation? Well, the best thing to do is to wait. You never know if it's just a man with no ambition n' is just there for a pussy hit mission, yenno? And, by your age above it says 16. If you really think about if you have your whole life ahead of you. Wouldn't you w
RE: It still hurts... - thatasiankiddd.
I know what you mean. These type of things really not physically. But, mentally. It's like a broken heart. You can't see it broken. But, you sure can feel it. This type of rumor was spreaded about me too. I've been in this thing with this guy for over 6 months. I finally told him I didn't want a boy
RE: Girl I like is mad at me - JudgeNeil
Judge Neil's AdviceI hope you prove me wrong and it turns out well.  I definitely wish you luck :)Please post any updates on the situation.  I still think you are going to meet a hottie in class and hit it off...

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A Paper I did in college on August 22, 2003 People have a natural curiosity as to the world in which they live.  Although the perception of life is merely that, it is still the only common frame of reference available to “humans” to discuss what they see, hear, touch, sense,and ultimately believe to
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USB - JudgeNeil

Ugly Boyfriend Syndrome, also known as UBS affects all women.  Some women carry the highly virulent verion of the disease known as NUBS, or Nasty UBS, while most simply carry the dormant dna that lays in wait.  The affliction is believed to originate through nature to help mankind procreate and it i
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BWS - JudgeNeil

Sometimes I wonder what quack came up with the term PMS or Pre Menstrual Syndrome.  I mean they have terms now for everything.  Contemporary understanding is that PMS is the time when women get bitchy.  It is like they get a pass.  Something like "Ok I don't feel great so I am going to terrorize peo
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RE: baby daddy drama - JudgeNeil

Judge Neil's AdviceYour post offers very little information to go on.  If you post more information I will follow up.For now what I can say is that I find it highly unlikely that your baby's dad does not love his daughter.  Now he is 19 and he may still feel like a kid himself.  The thought of havin
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baby daddy drama - bree

how do i get my 19 year old baby daddy love his unborn daughter
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DEAR DIARY - JudgeNeil

Dear Diary,Once upon a time people had diaries like you.  A place where they could share private thoughts about their life, sometimes to vent at the moment, and sometimes as a place to go back and reflect on times gone past.  It used to be when you wrote in your diary it was a private matter.  If so
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RE: Ugly? - Shamooo

In my opinion, i think every girl is beautiful, which means YOU are truly beautiful. As corny as it sounds, i really am true to my words. If your beautiful in the inside, then your beautiful on the outside. Simple as that! And for your "boyfriend", i have two words to say. Break up! What kind of guy

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